Dirty Macking what's that?

This week I was brought back to a funny experience I had and sometimes still have. You know when you socialize with someone attractive who is not your friend yet. You are socializing in a group with another one or a few of your friends present and suddenly they have little negative and small but belittling comments to cast you in a bad light. This is dirty macking. A term coined by black people to describe a common play. The pov could be you a person just trying to a friend or get to know a potential special someone. Or the pov could be the perpetrator. An insecure person who feels like they could not finesse said rando on their merit and now has to stoop toward attempting to embarrass you. All I can say is this is an ickkk. Thank you for sharing this term with me. You know who you are. 

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